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2 years, 1 month ago

Just got my first stand-up gig!! A little nervous - any advice?

So I'm actually going to cross "Doing stand-up" off of my bucket list!! I'm extremely excited, but naturally a little nervous! Any advice on calming the nerves before my set?
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brendonbarnett | 2 years, 1 month ago
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I know your question is directed more towards curbing your nervousness, but I feel that having confidence in your material and delivery style will overpower the nerves. So, here are some tips solely based on my responses to stand-up:


  1. Make it Personal - this is especially important if you are going to make fun of other people. You have to be able to make fun of yourself and find humor in your behavior.
  2. Keep it Short and Sweet - It takes great effort and skill to keep an audience captivated in a long story. Until you have mastered it, keep your jokes short.
  3. Don't Act Like a Goofball - Being crazy and farting on stage was barely funny in the 4th grade.
  4. Know and React to the Audience - Do some homework of the area you are visiting.  What are their political views, religious beliefs, eating habits? Also, if you notice the audience laughing more at certain jokes, try and lean towards that subject material. There is nothing worse than a comedian who knows the audience isn't responding, but sticks to their gameplan of more bad jokes.
  5. Speak Clearly - If you need to speak slowly to be heard, do it.  Make sure you are enunciating properly. You could be telling the best joke in the world, but if the audience thinks you said "chicken" instead of "sister," you could be missing an opportunity for a laugh.
  6. Use Props Appropriately - If you are going to incorporate props into your act, do it with class.  I hate it when a comedian is fidgeting with their hands in their pockets, with the mic stand or something else. It distracts my attention from what they're saying.


I hope these tips help and good luck

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derosajohanna | 2 years, 1 month ago Report

I just wanted to comment as well, to say, how exciting!! And good luck as well, of course.

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playmynrd | 2 years, 1 month ago Report

I just wanted to join everyone in wishing you the best of luck. This is very cool! I don't think you're nervous, you're just excited (and I'm excited for you!) Just have fun!

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island_druid | 2 years, 1 month ago Report

No advice but good luck and break a leg so to speak. Have fun and enjoy.

All the Best
I.D.

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coliflower | 2 years, 1 month ago Report

I just wanted to say, @irishstephen1974, congratulations!

I love stand-up and I know how hard the whole process could be.

Is anyone going to get video coverage? Because I'd love to see it, or at least read a transcript.

Good Luck!

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bloom77 | 2 years, 1 month ago
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Great advice all around. One thing many good stand up performers do is develop a stage persona which allows them to get into a groove and deal with hecklers. If it's just you telling jokes, that's one thing, but if it's a character you are playing, it becomes easier to deal with the stage fright, potential hecklers, and it might ease your relationship with the audience.

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drmatt | 2 years, 1 month ago
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As a fellow performer, recognize that the nerves are a part of the fun! They will make you exce!

Also recognize that, everyone puts their pants on one leg at a time...
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rdmcurator | 2 years, 1 month ago Report

So that's why you have the magic 'stache! :D

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doubleminaz | 2 years, 1 month ago Report

Uhhh, rdm, shouldn't that be :|D ;-|)

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philipy | 2 years, 1 month ago
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What always helps me with any kind of stage fright or nervousness while "waiting in the wings" for anything is to remember that the moment I get up there and start doing my thing, the nerves will disappear.

The waiting is much worse than actually doing it!

Although it always happens that way, I always forget that it happens like that too. :)

Also remember that if you aren't nervous, you probably don't care enough, so a little nervousness is a good thing! Remember it's not unusual to be nervous and there's nothing wrong with it!

If you are prepped enough by that stage, maybe when you catch yourself fretting just relax and listen to the guy who's on ahead of you and enjoy his act. Inevtiably you'll swing in and out of fretting and consciously chilling and going back to focusing on listening to the guy who's up.

Never done any stand up myself, but plenty of other stuff that petrified me in front of large groups of people. :)

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irishstephen1974 | 2 years, 1 month ago Report

You really couldn't be more right - the waiting is the worst part. Once I get going, it's all natural and pretty fluid.
Thanks for the advice old friend.

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marlene | 2 years, 1 month ago
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Calming nerves before your debut? Picture your audience naked! Just kidding.

The best way to prepare is a workout before your performance. This helps invigorate your mind and body and release that inner energy and creativeness. Follow your workout with some deep breathing, stretching, and it will all come together. Congratulations on making progress with that "bucket list". Just think, this could be the beginning of something wonderful, new, and definitely exciting!

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sunshine09 | 2 years, 1 month ago
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WOWWWYY !! How exciting, and Big Congratulations !! Maybe you could try your act out in front of a few of your friends or maybe even try recording yourself and listening to it yourself. That way you could get some good critical feed back (if needed) or maybe listening to the act yourself you could change a few things (if needed) before doing the actual act. This is so exciting, I wish we all could have tickets to go, what fun that would be. We could be your cheerleading squad, "The Mahaloians Bucket List Cheerleading Squad". Well when you become HUGE, you can send all of your fans a ticket. Maybe you could record and let all of us listen !! Just be yourself, I have never met you except for on here and think you will be just Great at this !! Take a few deep breathes and have a hold of your self - confidence before going on stage, I am sure you will be just fine.

Notice the Men LOL
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irishstephen1974 | 2 years, 1 month ago Report

Sunshine, you're so awesome!! Thanks for th support! You give me courage - and believe me, if Icould get yo uguys there, I totally would! I'll let you know how it goes - I'm confirmed for 4/22...

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sunshine09 | 2 years, 1 month ago Report

I can not wait .. I hope you do get to continue, I love stand-ups also !!

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sunshine09 | 2 years, 1 month ago Report

That is soooo very cool !! Iam blowing you a kiss and a hug just before you go on !! Think of Me ok !! Greatest luck to you !! I can not wait to hear how to goes. Is this something that you can continue doing if you want to? ooops I thought you said 420 LOL. jk

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irishstephen1974 | 2 years, 1 month ago Report

Oh man, if it was on 4/20, my jokes woul;d be ALT funnier! ;)
And if it works out well, I may do it more if the opportunity is there - like I said, I'll do my best to get it recorded and I'll try to share here!
Smooches!

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doubleminaz | 2 years, 1 month ago
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Awesome, darling!!! ;-) You're gonna "kill".

I think there are some great tips already here, but I would just add that you might want to break the ice by using your nervousness in a funny, personal way as soon as you get in front of that mic. Maybe a Chevy Chase-like trip, maybe an exaggerated boy-I'm-so-nervous (how nervous are you?)-I'm-going-to-projectile-vomit gag. Phew, now I feel better. (Depending on your style and the rest of your act, of course - are you more of a Gallagher than a Steven Wright, etc.)

So, you gonna try out any of your act on us? (With or without video?) Obviously, from the answers already here, we could be a supportive virtual audience.

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irishstephen1974 | 2 years, 1 month ago Report

Smooches!
I'll try to get it recorded and then post t here for yall to laugh at me or with me!
And the Chevy Chase-like trip is actually pretty normal for me, so I may even throw that in - just to pay homage to my doubleminaz~!!

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