Is it harder to deal with an unexpected sudden death or watching someone live through a long drawn out painful death?
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In terms of shock and all the related consequences, a sudden, unexpected death can be devastating. It might bring on a state of "groundlessness" - nothing solid to stand on, no solid point of reference. It can make you question everything.
I've dealt with both. I wouldn't wish either on anyone.
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Personal experience.
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For example, in the case of an unexpected sudden death, that sometimes means a horrific accident in which one family member is driving (and perhaps is the one who caused the wreck) and other loved ones in the car don't live through it.
There are all kinds of painful and terrible when it comes to loss in this world, that's for sure. People are who they are and feel what they feel, and there's no one right answer to this in terms of all the anger, fear, sorrow, desperation and other things a person could experience. In other words, I don't think grief is a competition in which one person's situation can be judged on the surface as somehow less significant or easier to deal with than the suffering of another person.
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M$A long drawn out illness can be more difficult for the sufferer and those around them; those who have to care as it can be (but not always) a lost cause. When the person finally dies, it can be a relief that it is all over; the person's suffering is ended and they are free from the difficulty.
So a sudden death can be merciful in some ways; a long drawn out one can be the opposite.
Our difficulty with sudden death (such as an auto accident) is that a life appears to be cut short.
This all may sound a little harsh, and it is not meant to be so. Anyone we care about needs compassion and our concern.
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Also my dad died slowly of prostate cancer and that was worse on me, seeing him waste away like that.
I think it depends on who they are to you and how close you are. To me I would rather somebody I love go quickly than suffer like my dad did.
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