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2 years, 7 months ago

Is great sex a good birthday gift for your boyfriend?

I want to give him a great birthday gift!!!! i already have awesome plans for it...
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michelleldevon | 2 years, 7 months ago
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I don't think sex is a good birthday gift.

Here's why: if you're in a relationship that is already sexually active, then you should be giving 'great sex' to your boyfriend all the time, just as he should be to you. What constitutes 'great sex' to you and your boyfriend might be different than what it is to me or someone else, but it should be 'great' all the time, not JUST on his birthday.

So if someone is supposed to get great sex with their partner all the time when in a relationship, then giving them great sex for their birthday isn't really a gift at all, but rather, something they always can have, and should have.

A birthday gift should be something different, out of the ordinary. While sex might be a component of the birthday, or part of the festivities planned, or a perfect way to end a perfect birthday, it shouldn't be the only 'gift' given for a birthday to your partner.

To me, saying that 'sex' from your partner is a birthday gift is almost a bit conceited, as though he should be thankful you actually put yourself out and had sex with him.

Don't get me wrong. I love sex. My husband and I have a great sex life, but if he ever came to me and we made love and then he said, "That's your birthday gift from me, sex." I'd be quite upset!

So maybe you can make it special sex, something you've never tried together, or do a sexy striptease and wrap yourself in a bow and dance for him, or fix him his favorite meal with candles and win and serve it naked.

Something special, different.

But just 'great sex' is NOT a good birthday gift.

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albanian | 2 years, 7 months ago Report

I strongly agree with this answer. While I'm all in favor of sex, a birthday gift should be something that is unusual and reasonable for a once per year event. Sex should be a lot more often than once per year and you should always aim to make it great. Now if he was not your boyfriend, that might make it a unique and rare birthday gift.

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lalalastef | 2 years, 7 months ago
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LOL, it is a great gift.

My boyfriend's birthday was last month, I made up three little gift boxes, in each one I placed a little item. One box had a picture of breakfast which I had printed out, when he opened that one I gave him "surpirse" sex in the kitchen at breakfast.

I gave him the other two boxes and told him to open them only when I told him. The second had his business card in it, I called him at work and told him to open it and had "surprise" phone sex.

The third and final one had a bottle of aspirin, that I told him to open when we came back from dinner, I dressed up in a nurse's outfit he had always suggested I buy and had a "memorable" nightcap.

Be creative, and it can be an excellent gift. My boyfriend still thanks me for that gift.

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silverhammer | 2 years, 7 months ago Report

Great sex only once a year? You should give yourself more credit. :)

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worldflavors | 2 years, 7 months ago
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Not only is it a good birthday gift, but it is a gift that can keep on giving!

Both your boyfriend and you can enjoy.
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xds | 2 years, 7 months ago Report

LOL

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romeo0830 | 2 years, 7 months ago
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if he knows what hes getting then he is thinking, please dont wait for my birthday, thats to long away.. =)

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pellrider | 2 years, 7 months ago
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Your boyfriend is going to love it. Serve a nice homemade dinner and have great fun in the bedroom.
I sure think, you already decided on your sexy garments for the day. Is the romantic music is selected? Remember to have his favorite perfume.
Wow!! candle lit dinner and great sex...

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jasoncalacanis | 2 years, 7 months ago
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Does it include an outfit (or three)?

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robbrown | 2 years, 7 months ago
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My wife treats every day like a birthday.

If you're interested in getting married to this guy, pony up.

Just don't forget to relay this same message to him. Great sex isn't an individual activity after all.

If I was presented with a choice between a birthday present or great sex... sex would win out.

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michelleldevon | 2 years, 7 months ago Report

LOL I just don't think it should have to be a choice. Great sex should be a natural and normal and healthy component to a good relationship, a gift that you two share naturally, without special events like birthdays.

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sunshine09 | 2 years, 7 months ago
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Yes, by all means having great sex and a special night planned for the two of you for his birthday is a great idea. Not only because it is his birthday, but having great sex makes for great partners and the possiblity of either of you cheating is almost impossible. Most men would love this as a present and it sounds to me like you have a wonderful fun evening planned. You go girl !! Have fun and I hope the both of you enjoy it .

Start with something like this and things are sure to get hotter as the night goes on !!
http://www.flickr.com/photos/qshouse/2315431692/

Don't forget the cake.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/cakes1/2816023795/

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unwirklich | 2 years, 7 months ago
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Special sex is a great birthday gift unless your relation ship lacks sex usually :P Do something out of the ordinary you usually wouldn't. Fulfill a fantasy of his.

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chocolate_barbie | 2 years, 7 months ago
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well it depends if he's in da good mood

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ribbions240 | 2 years, 7 months ago
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YES THATS ALL I GET 4 MY BIRTHDAY

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waulok | 2 years, 7 months ago
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Where's the "HELL YES!" button?

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ticketbust | 2 years, 7 months ago
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Have you heard the song, "Birthday Sex" by Jeremiah...

For me I think, sex as a birthday gift will always be welcomed and accepted by anyone specially by your love one... Plan for that special night... A candlelit dinner, wine and the works... and then a scattered rose leading to the bedroom with scented candles and a soothing sound is a plus! From there i know you do it by yourself :p
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chriswingate | 2 years, 7 months ago
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I wouldn't complain if I was the birthday boyfriend.

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vice | 2 years, 7 months ago
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i dont think sex is a good birth day gift . if u want to have sex the person should be your future husband

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talisha | 2 years, 7 months ago Report

I dont think sex is good 4 you.Talisha whittaker

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expertknowledge | 2 years, 7 months ago
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It's not a good birthday gift, it's a great one!

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cheapgamer | 2 years, 7 months ago
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You rock so much you should form a band!

Seriously the mention that "I already have awesome plans for it" means that you are taking the time to make it really special. Good for you!

I know I and most of the guys here think this is a great gift, but just in case think about what kind of guy he is, if he really likes "stuff" you may want to give him a small toy in addition but if he likes "events" You really have this covered nicely!

Have fun.

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hollistershirt | 2 years, 7 months ago
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yes ! i would this so,lol but it depends on what you call "great sex" lol . you need to really give him every thing he wants if you know what i mean! and it needs to be different on his birthday, like speacial...like.. if you usually act snobby or something during sex, lol dont do it this time...and dont say no 2 anything...and do alot of stuff and say alot of stuff to turn him on, that day..act like a pro too...basiclly just make him feel like your dedicating tha whole day 2 his d*** lol like everything revolves around his d*** and smile about it...lol and o yea..still buy him some stuff too lol ne thing he wants real bad.. u should be ok..lol and 2 be honest , only do everything if you feel like he special 2 you and stuff..lol..n not just some dude that u've been knowing a couple of days...
dont want your heart 2 be broken n junk ...:)lol

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tranhawk | 2 years, 7 months ago
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Yes!!!!!
And a good meal.
You do not have to be fancy just pizza is fine. Us guys are easy that way!

Listen to the Wisdom of Chris Rock!

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riamaqtpie | 2 years, 7 months ago
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Of course it is.

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deathmonkey | 2 years, 7 months ago
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yes

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sexyme4u | 2 years, 7 months ago
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blind fold him and howold is he turning thats how many times u should lick him if u no what i mean

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duenhsiyen | 2 years, 7 months ago
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By asking the question, you are already on your way to having a great birthday with your boyfriend!

SEX= Spiritual Energy Exchange

I made this video at a workshop with NVC trainer, Kelly Bryson. It starts getting really hilarious at the 3:30 mark.

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kreding | 1 year, 6 months ago
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I think sex is a Great gift for your boyfriend on his bday, GOOD sex is even better. there is no better way to express your love and emotions than through intimacy and ALL guys love sex. So not only is it free, its fun and there are so many ways to change it up and make it even better. I spent over $200 on my boyfriend for his bday gift last year and we had amazing sex and he told me that just the sex alone made his day great and would have much rather have had that than the present (which he honestly did love 2) anyday.

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paresh | 2 years, 1 month ago
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it depends upon the right time...

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autoblog | 2 years, 7 months ago
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maybe, if you're really cheap

otherwise you should buy him much more expensive things

don't you care about him at all?

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red_peggy | 2 years, 7 months ago
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it really depends on the couple. But really sex should be given as a "free" gift naturally. Does that mean on regular days you do not have great sex. You should try to have great sex every single time is my opinion. Why dont you combine it with a gift maybe book a weekend trip away somewhere and surprise him with it and take him out for a nice meal or have the hotel bring food up to the room like champagner and strawberries :)

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rebecca sj | 2 years, 6 months ago
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My first time was a birthday gift. A very nice present!

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drivel | 2 years, 7 months ago
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Good idea, have you chosen the girl?

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andra33 | 2 years, 7 months ago
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Well, if you do in a special way, it could be. Wear something sexy and play a role or an erotic game. Make it special. After all, this time it should be more than just sex.

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theblindtruth | 2 years, 7 months ago
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You have to make it a special occasion.

a special event to make it a gift.

normal sex isnt a gift.

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crazy2lolo | 2 years, 2 months ago
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GREAT SEX FOR HIS BIRTHDAY......
WHAT IS GREAT SEX TO YOU??? HE MIGHT THINK GREAT SEX FROM YOU MIGHT BE A SICK THING??

THE BEST WAY IS TO TRY YOUR GREAT SEX ON ME FIRST.. I LOVE KINKY ... DO YOU?????
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shadowbear | 2 years, 7 months ago
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Would depend on where it was made.
Fine craftsmanship is an important concideration when shopping for such a personal gift.

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waulok | 2 years, 7 months ago Report

And "when" ;)

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