Is great sex a good birthday gift for your boyfriend?
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Here's why: if you're in a relationship that is already sexually active, then you should be giving 'great sex' to your boyfriend all the time, just as he should be to you. What constitutes 'great sex' to you and your boyfriend might be different than what it is to me or someone else, but it should be 'great' all the time, not JUST on his birthday.
So if someone is supposed to get great sex with their partner all the time when in a relationship, then giving them great sex for their birthday isn't really a gift at all, but rather, something they always can have, and should have.
A birthday gift should be something different, out of the ordinary. While sex might be a component of the birthday, or part of the festivities planned, or a perfect way to end a perfect birthday, it shouldn't be the only 'gift' given for a birthday to your partner.
To me, saying that 'sex' from your partner is a birthday gift is almost a bit conceited, as though he should be thankful you actually put yourself out and had sex with him.
Don't get me wrong. I love sex. My husband and I have a great sex life, but if he ever came to me and we made love and then he said, "That's your birthday gift from me, sex." I'd be quite upset!
So maybe you can make it special sex, something you've never tried together, or do a sexy striptease and wrap yourself in a bow and dance for him, or fix him his favorite meal with candles and win and serve it naked.
Something special, different.
But just 'great sex' is NOT a good birthday gift.
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M$My boyfriend's birthday was last month, I made up three little gift boxes, in each one I placed a little item. One box had a picture of breakfast which I had printed out, when he opened that one I gave him "surpirse" sex in the kitchen at breakfast.
I gave him the other two boxes and told him to open them only when I told him. The second had his business card in it, I called him at work and told him to open it and had "surprise" phone sex.
The third and final one had a bottle of aspirin, that I told him to open when we came back from dinner, I dressed up in a nurse's outfit he had always suggested I buy and had a "memorable" nightcap.
Be creative, and it can be an excellent gift. My boyfriend still thanks me for that gift.
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M$I sure think, you already decided on your sexy garments for the day. Is the romantic music is selected? Remember to have his favorite perfume.
Wow!! candle lit dinner and great sex...
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M$If you're interested in getting married to this guy, pony up.
Just don't forget to relay this same message to him. Great sex isn't an individual activity after all.
If I was presented with a choice between a birthday present or great sex... sex would win out.
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M$Start with something like this and things are sure to get hotter as the night goes on !!
http://www.flickr.com/photos/qshouse/2315431692/
Don't forget the cake.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/cakes1/2816023795/
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M$For me I think, sex as a birthday gift will always be welcomed and accepted by anyone specially by your love one... Plan for that special night... A candlelit dinner, wine and the works... and then a scattered rose leading to the bedroom with scented candles and a soothing sound is a plus! From there i know you do it by yourself :p
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M$Seriously the mention that "I already have awesome plans for it" means that you are taking the time to make it really special. Good for you!
I know I and most of the guys here think this is a great gift, but just in case think about what kind of guy he is, if he really likes "stuff" you may want to give him a small toy in addition but if he likes "events" You really have this covered nicely!
Have fun.
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M$dont want your heart 2 be broken n junk ...:)lol
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M$And a good meal.
You do not have to be fancy just pizza is fine. Us guys are easy that way!
Listen to the Wisdom of Chris Rock!
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M$SEX= Spiritual Energy Exchange
I made this video at a workshop with NVC trainer, Kelly Bryson. It starts getting really hilarious at the 3:30 mark.
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M$otherwise you should buy him much more expensive things
don't you care about him at all?
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M$it really depends on the couple. But really sex should be given as a "free" gift naturally. Does that mean on regular days you do not have great sex. You should try to have great sex every single time is my opinion. Why dont you combine it with a gift maybe book a weekend trip away somewhere and surprise him with it and take him out for a nice meal or have the hotel bring food up to the room like champagner and strawberries :)
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M$a special event to make it a gift.
normal sex isnt a gift.
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M$WHAT IS GREAT SEX TO YOU??? HE MIGHT THINK GREAT SEX FROM YOU MIGHT BE A SICK THING??
THE BEST WAY IS TO TRY YOUR GREAT SEX ON ME FIRST.. I LOVE KINKY ... DO YOU?????
MY SICK MIND..............
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M$Fine craftsmanship is an important concideration when shopping for such a personal gift.
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I strongly agree with this answer. While I'm all in favor of sex, a birthday gift should be something that is unusual and reasonable for a once per year event. Sex should be a lot more often than once per year and you should always aim to make it great. Now if he was not your boyfriend, that might make it a unique and rare birthday gift.