Is a relationship a 50/50 proposition? Is there more to it?
Is ones contribution based on the contribution of the other?
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My Thoughts.
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M$Being in "full control" can mean the relationship is a codependent one, which is rather dysfunctional. A relationship based on mutual love and respect is more healthy and happy in the long run.
In a committed relationship since 1991, married to that same person since 1999.
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Well, feeling out of control may mean that one member of the relationship has power over the other. My partner is my peer, and we see each other as such. Such a situation could be the prelude to abuse; as you may know abusive relationships involve someone not only having power over the other person, but wielding that power against them.
Ok all good points. But on the issue of being in control. Assume for a moment you're are NOT in control. Now control that...your thoughts?
There may be a connection between the two. If someone does not give 100%, they lose control of what is happening in the relationship, not necessarily lose control over that person. A relationship one person should not have to control their mate. If that is the case, it could be considered a one sided relationship, which is not a relationship.