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If you met a beautiful married women in bar who told you she wants to leave her husband and shes sober. Should you take her offer?

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quesera | 2 years, 4 months ago
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I personally would not have a fling with a married person. Not only would I feel sleezy, my standards are too high to be with a cheating run-about. My response would be "really? That's too bad. Well, when you're legally separated or divorced, I hope we run into each other again."

Someone like that is probably not mentally stable. They are unhappy, yet refuse to leave. They want to be with someone else, yet are incapable of honesty with their spouse. They may also have an angry spouse coming after you, and is it so hard to imagine that during a fight they might smugly tell their partner "oh yeah?! Well, when I was with so-and-so the other night, HE certainly didn't think so!"? Finally, I generally think of cheaters as being higher risk for STD's. Especially when you consider that a lot of married couples use the pill, not condoms, so if they're both cheating (likely) but both pretending they're not, they're both potentially sick without knowing the other got them sick.

As you said, sometimes you just want to have fun. If you do, and we're willing to risk it, I guess her marital problems are her business. Just know in the future, women don't smile on that kind of behavior. If you're ever after a long-term relationship with a nice woman, assume her knowledge of this would make you "damaged goods" in her eyes.

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bklynj | 2 years, 4 months ago Report

You have assumed alot of facts STD's, runaround, worried about her husband...but the best is the future girlfriend finding out and considering me damaged goods. How many people today, under 50, are married to the first person they slept with. Less than over 85%. How many people have children with two mommies and/or daddies? Even people over 50. How many children being raised in the same house are step-brothers/sisters? The divorce rate in this country is well over 50%-this makes almost everybody damaged goods! But, who said I don't use condoms?

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owl | 2 years, 4 months ago
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No! Just because she is not happy with her husband does not mean that I should accept her offer. There may be plenty of such women who want to leave their husbands, would you accept everybody? It is not as easy and as simple as that.

But if you are really interested in her, then I would suggest to study her for a while and try to know what she wants, what's her background, history etc. You may proceed then.

You should decide logically.

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bklynj | 2 years, 4 months ago Report

No I would not accept them all. The question said she was beautiful, I'm not married and noone said her offer was a long term commitment. Sometimes boys just want to have fun!

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