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If you come to know that, other people are controlling your life, and that makes you angry, what can one do?

How would you 'revolt' to get the freedom you deserve? Getting more and more angry is probably not the answer, but how would a human deal with the situation when he comes to know that it is other people who are controlling his or her life? What other options are available other than to 'meekly accept' X controls me and X is a third-party? And you realize that you just cant please those other people like they think they should be, because a) you dont know who they are b) you dont know what are their intentions etc?
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pellrider | 2 years, 10 months ago
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Do not try to please other people. Especially, if you don't know their intentions.
Be sure to make decisions that please yourself. Forgive yourself if your decision turned out to be a bad one. Learn from your mistakes. It is OK to accept help in the process of decisions. Being an adult, remember, your life is your own.

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bomae | 2 years, 11 months ago
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You need to step back and ask yourself how did I let this happen. But first of
all there is always someone for everyone to answer to. Whether it be a spouse, partner, boss, government, etc. We are never truly in control of all
our decisions.
But to stop the daily control by someone that is making you angry, step away
from the situation. State you are an adult and do not need help running your
life and your decisions. If there comes a time you do need help you will be
very pleased to ask for help but until then please butt out.
Best of Luck

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