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I need man advice...How do you treat a man so you won't be cheated on? Is it really the sex? Or is it just the connection?

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ravenchrome | 2 years, 10 months ago view on twitter
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I don't think that the fault lies in you if ever your man cheats on you. Your man is old enough to know what's wrong and what's right and if he cheats on you it's because he "decided" to cheat and not because of who you are or what you did.

That's the reason why it's called a "relationship." You and your partner need to work things out if you want your relationship to work. It's not a one-way street.

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papyrus | 2 years, 10 months ago Report

I agree. The only solution is to find a good man.

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beefymexican | 2 years, 10 months ago view on twitter
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how do you keep a man from cheating?

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1)keep passion in the relationship

2) stay intimate, Not just in a physical level, but really develope an open relationship in which both of you can express your feelings

3)stay commited to the relationship. This is perhaps the most complicated part of the equation. In order to achive this maintain the privious two and keep the relationship balance. what do i mean by balance? i mean both of you have to be able to exist whitout the other meaninf that at any given time you or him can walk away from the relationship without being economic or emotionaly dependable.

that is the best way of maintaing a helthy relationship of course sometimes love just runs out and its time to move on.
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innovativethinker | 2 years, 10 months ago
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I think there is no way to guarantee that you will not be cheated on. You have to make sure that you are in a balanced relationship that has a good balance of chemistry. I think sex and a strong emotional connection is important but its really no guarantee.Perhaps you need to be open about your expectations in the relationship. I think apart of this is psychological as well, people cheat for a variety of reasons. Some issues have to do with their own insecurities or stresses.

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srgothard | 2 years, 10 months ago view on twitter
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I'm not a man, but I'm happily married, and I know what my husband thinks on most issues.
  1. Find a moral man. The simplest way to determine morality is whether he is willing to wait until marriage for intimacy. I know many people will disagree with me, but my sisters and I all found men willing to wait. They do exist. Men who won't wait until marriage have a character flaw that may show up again during marriage.
  2. Don't change. Basically, whatever you did to catch him, you should keep up to keep him. Do your hair and makeup, laugh at his jokes, and do all the things you did while you were dating. It's like losing weight: whatever you did to lose the weight you have to do to keep it off.
  3. Respect him. Men want to be respected by other men, and almost assume they should be respected by their women. Listen to him, trust him, appreciate him, put his needs in front of yours, and love him. When men cheat on their wives, they often say things like "She's the only one who understands me."

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lostsnconfusion | 2 years, 10 months ago view on twitter
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Honestly, I think that no matter what type of relationship you may have with the person, there will always be a possibility of them cheating. You could have a really good sex life with this person but the person might think that that's all the relationship is for or might think that the sex life on their side is not good enough for them. For the connection, the connection could be great, but the other person might get tired of the relationship or just doesn't see things the way you may think that they do. I was in a relationship were I thought my partner and I were good and that nothing could happen, but it did. So I try to keep my guard up but at the same time trust them at the same time. Don't keep your life to where you try too hard to keep things perfect in the relationship, because relationships are never perfect. Just be yourself, don't always put up a wall that's so strong, because it might push away the person that you never meant to push away and you'll have no one to blame but yourself.

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finfribble | 2 years, 10 months ago view on twitter
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I guess I kind of agree but it's really not the whole picture. Plenty of guys date girls and have an incredible amount of sex but end up leaving them anyway. Sex is absolutely necessary but not sufficient. In this day and age it's very easy for a guy to get sex so not providing it is a huge disadvantage (unless there's some kind of religious thing working). But then after he has to be attracted to you, he has to want you. And again, that's about the physical but it is also at some point the emotional. If he's not taking you out it's not really a good sign. If he's not taking initiative he's not really inspired by you or the relationship which can occur because you're not the one or because you're overdoing it on the pursuit side. After awhile if you're not responding it's going to piss him off. The thing that I think a lot of girls miss is (and in fairness guys to) placing the guy at a priority. Hanging out with your friends, getting carried away with work or dragging him to family things are all part of a relationship but push comes to shove if you're serious there will be times you have to place him at a priority. Not by talking. By the choices you make. And the way that you act. It seems to me this is where I see a lot of relationships go wrong. I can't tell you how many guys have cheated because the girl was p*****g him off (usually in a way that he thought was overbearing).

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coachshalanda | 2 years, 10 months ago view on twitter
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If a man wants to cheat then that's what he'll do. Some men are so sex driven it does not matter whether or not they are having sex with their partner-they'll take it whenever they can get it. I once worked with a couple where the man cheated with a co-worker even though he and his wife were having sex regularly. I have had some people say that they cheated when their current relationship was in trouble as opposed to trying to work things out. You can't be 100% sure that a man won't cheat, but if the both of you work on developing the relationship and building trust and communicating properly you can be sure that the chances of either of you cheating will be slim to none.
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scamp | 2 years, 10 months ago view on twitter
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If a man is going to cheat, he is going to cheat no matter what you do or how you treat him. The choice to cheat is that of the cheater, and not his/her partner.

That said, sometimes after the newness of a relationship wears off, and the "warm fuzzies" are no longer there, either partner may develop a roving eye due to boredom, or the introduction of someone "tempting" into the persons life.

The best thing to do is to have open communication with your partner, and have the "what if" discusssion. Talk to each other about what you expect from the relationship, and draw some boundaries once you have established that you are exclusive.

A lot of women fail to realize that even tho you have been dating some some time, a man may not necessarily see it as an exclusive relationshiop without having that discussion. Once it is decided that you will both see no one else, talk about the possible repercussion if either of you falls into the temptations of another.

It's human nature to wonder "what if" when people meet someone attractive, so mistakes can and do happen. If you have open communication, and you and your partner know that you can talk about it openly if one makes that mistakes, it will lessen the chances of it happening again.

If after all of this, your partner cheats and you can't work things out, don't blame yourself and what you should or should not have done, just know that maybe that was not the right person for you, or you for him.

Just chalk it up to the school of hard knocks, and know you will be more prepared for the next one that comes along. Good luck to you!!
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colonial butros | 2 years, 10 months ago view on twitter
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For a man, it is about the sex. The main reason we get in relationships is for sex. I don't know if woman quite understand our sex drive, its all about our testosterone, and you ladies run on estrogen, so I don't think you fully understand. The emotional connection is on the female side really.

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