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2 years, 4 months ago via

I love a girl but she loves my best friend and even my best friend knows that i am in love with her so what should i do

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cherise | 2 years, 4 months ago
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If this girl loves your best friend, then the girl has made her choice. There is nothing that you can do to change her mind, so do not embarass yourself by trying to change her mind. Accept that she is not for you. Move on and get to know some other girls.

If your best friend loves this girl, too, then they will probably be together. I think you should accept this. Have a nice talk with your best friend and give the two of them your blessing. Explain though that it is too painful for you to hang out with them when they are together, so you would like it if your best friend made some time to hang out just with you sometimes.

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cheapgamer | 2 years, 4 months ago
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The question is missing a huge consideration. How does your best friend feel about her?

WARNING TOUGH LOVE AHEAD

If your best friend loves her, it is time to let her go. This may be difficult to hear, but I do not think you love her. Love is something that comes from mutual feelings. You may like her, you may care for her, but if she does not feel the same about you, this isn't love. If you care about her you want what is best for her, and though this may be tough to hear, you may not be what is best for her.

If your best friend does not love her, he needs to tell her. You can be there for her after that, but if you try to romance her as she is dealing with that pain it will damage your relationship.

Give it time, be friends if it changes to something more so be it.
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owl | 2 years, 4 months ago
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A typical love-triangle. Anyway, here is my short and sweet answer.

If your best friend loves her too, then forget her.
If the girl loves your best friend, then too, forget her (it is better to be loved than to love somebody).
If you still think you can manage, express yourself to her frankly (I don't think you did this). Don't be late.

All the best. Thanks
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keepontryin | 2 years, 4 months ago
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I would first say wait. The situation will probably change over time. Either her feelings for your friend will change, or his for her, or perhaps yours for her. I actually don't see anything wrong with having a talk with her at some point. You decide how long you want to wait. You may want to wait until she is no longer in love with your friend, if that ever happens.

At some point I think you would want to tell her (unless her and your friend get engaged and married). Sit down and maybe take her hands across the table and tell her, " I've been wanting to tell you that I'm in love with you. I don't know if you feel at all that way about me, or if you ever will, but I didn't want to go through life without telling you that". Might it be embarrassing? Shore enough might. Have most of us been through it ourselves? You bet we have, on both sides. It's all a part of getting where you're going, relationshipwise.

I find it better to err on the side of telling than of keeping it to yourself.

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