I lost a bet with my boyfriend. Now I'm his slave girl for 2 weeks. But has he gone too far? Any words of encouragement?
Yesterday was the start of my "sentence" but my boyfriend referred to it as slave training day, so today was the REAL start! But now I'm in over my head. He ACTUALLY found a website that sells the "slave leia" bikini from Return of the Jedi. He bought it specifically for this occasion. It has the wrist cuff, the snake armband, the collar, the bra, the belt...everything! It's an exact replica! Now I have to wear it for 2 weeks!
This morning, he chained me to his couch just like Jabba did to Leia, and I can already tell, it's not going to be easy being on a leash for 2 weeks. At least he's allowing me time on his laptop and to watch tv and stuff. And so far I've obeyed all his wishes and commands.
But now he's talking about inviting some of his friends over to play video games later. I think having other people around with the way I'm dressed and the situation I'm in is maybe pushing it too far! It's degrading and I might feel embarassed.
Anyway, I have a long road to tread for 2 weeks. Any words of encouragement to perk my spirits up and get me through this embarassing time? Any advice for a 2-week long slave girl?
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M$Nevertheles, this seems a bit extreme. If your boyfriend cares about you, and you are feeling really embarrassed or degraded, he would tone it down a bit. If he doesn't, then I would wonder about how much he can empathize... or even how much he cares about you.
You might want to take this time to consider whether you want to with this guy.
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Whoa. That must be exactly where my boyfriend...or um...master for 2 weeks...got my bikini I'm wearing. I see the different colors of gold. Mine is almost identical to the girl's in the bottom left...um...light gold/copper, I think that says. Kinda small.
slave kat has a great potential avatar pic now. We all can't wait to see it.
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I asked my husband if I could get one.... turns out he's not a star wars fan. I had no idea. Oh well we'll get one anyway :D
You rule doc - pix are critical.
Good link hushnow. They have illustrations of their product too.
drmatt you talking about the girls or the bikinis?
P.S. Leia bikini? Pics or it didn't happen...
I'm not exactly into that kind of stuff but it looks like you can buy it...
http://www.leiasmetalbikini.com/buy.html
I'll take... ummm... THAT one. No... THAT one. Oh, hell, just throw them all into a bag. I'll take them ALL!
I would agree with doc...talk to him, make sure that he at least knows that your not really feeling the slave girl in front of friends thing. Who knows, maybe he will change his "demands" to be, "Act normal while they are here..."...which would probably be wise. Hell hath no fury and all that...
Seriously?!?! A princess Leia bikini?!?! hrm....
My own $0.02
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Yes. I am dead serious! My boyfriend's weird. He's got the princess leia bikini fantasy going on. I think he's had the bikini for a while and has wanted to find a time to get me to wear it! What a perfect time...when I actually AM his slave! But I have to wear it for the full 2 weeks...24/7...by order of my boyfriend...or um "Master."
But I'll be ok. I may get kind of bored chained to my Master's couch for 2 weeks, so if you or anyone wants to shoot me an occassional e-mail to keep me company, you can send it to katie_lane_15_usa@yahoo.com.
Let's face it.. we geeks ALL have the Leia bikini fantasy.
If he wants to invite his friends over to ogle you, and you're not okay with that, say you're not okay with it. If he says that you lost the bet and have to do what he says, remind him that just like bets between boyfriend and girlfriend in the first place, you're playing a game, and you always have the right to stop playing when the game turns harsh. If he can't accept that, then you should take off the chain, go put on sensible clothes, and walk out the door.
On the other hand, if he is responsive to when your discomfort goes out of the playful zone and into the "this is not cool" zone, and he can keep it on the "you lost a bet" playful level, then I'd say have fun with it. It sounds like that's what you want to do in the first place, so I'm not thinking it's time to sound the general alarm here.
Put bluntly, if at this core this is fun for you both, you should keep it up. If it stops being fun, tell him. If he dismisses your concerns, then stop playing.
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M$Apparently these costumes are pretty popular for Halloween and other costuming opportunities. Chaining you to a couch for any length of time is beyond a Halloween party though.
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M$You've got to understand - every guy who's every seen Jedi wnats their girl to wear that outfit. I'm STILL trying to get my wife into one!!
But still, if you're uncomfortable then you should be honest with him. I would feel weird about my girl in a Leia bikini with my friends over. Drooling. Staring...
Sorry - I got distracted!
But seriously, tell him you're uncomfortable and work some other stuff out. You've been a good sport. I'd let you off. But save the bikini.
You may want to remember this next time HE looses a bet!!!
Best wishes!!
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M$On the other hand, it may be that part of the reason he wanted you to be his slave-girl in the first place is so that he could show you off that way to his friends and get some masculine back-slapping. In that case it might be harder to get him to see things your way. If he's got his heart set on it, perhaps the two of you would be inclined to consider a compromise, in which he gets to show you off for a few minutes, then you can unchain and put on more normal clothing for the rest of their visit.
Regardless of what you choose, if you have access to the computer and worst comes to worst, you can always email or IM someone else to call the police and get you out of there. That could have somewhat long-standing consequences for your relationship—but then, so could his failure to see things your way.
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Well, I agree. At first this whole thing seemed a tad degrading, but I lost the bet, so I am going to pay my price! If he wants to show me off to some of his friends...I'll do it. Bring it on! He's trying to make me feel the humiliation of being a helpless slave girl in a skimpy little bikini. The one thing I won't do is give him that satisfaction! If I show him that I am sad or embarassed, it will be like giving into him.
(sigh) I guess I'll just have to deal with 2 weeks of wearing a bikini, being on a leash, and bowing before him and calling him Master.
So far, he's been pretty easy on me. I've just had to serve him drinks, massage his feet and back, and perform one lap dance. But he told me the fun hadn't even begun! (rolls eyes). Oh well, don't worry about me. I'll pay his price.
Once I'm back to freedom in 2 weeks, I will make him remember this! Heh heh heh
Then you ARE accusing me of lying, dr. matt? Well...believe what you want! i won't post pictures just because there are a few people that ARE looking for a subtle excuse to see half-nude photos of me! (even though you say you're not). I just posted the comment because I was bored and wanted words of encouragement while I serve out my sentence. So...I'm done with you. I'll stick to everyone else's comments...if you think I'm a liar dr. matt, then don't comment anymore! What I said was true! And even if I DID have pictures, some random horny guy on mahalo answers who thinks i'm a LIAR is the "LAST" person I would show those pics to!
Robotech...now on to you! Did you even read my question? I am not literally a slave! I lost a bet, so I am for 2 weeks. If my boyfriend wanted to make it illegal, do you think he would be stupid enough to allow me internet access in the first place? And just because he wants to degrade me by making me wear a skimpy costume, putting me on a chain, and making me obey simple tasks doesn't mean he is going to downright HURT me! I lost a bet! Big whoop! By the way, robotech, read my question again! Do you see the part where it says: "At least he's allowing me time on his laptop and to watch tv and stuff?" Huh? Did you see that? Huh? Or do you read at a preschool reading level?
My advice...if you and dr. matt wish to accuse me of lying...whatever! Please don't respond again then if you don't believe me.
P.S.-if my boyfriend does decide to take pics, I may personally allow everyone to see them EXCEPT you 2, just to spite you. What do you think of that?
"Pictures or it didn't happen." is a phrase I've heard around the 'net and between some of my friends meaning that you won't believe something happened until you see the pictures. In this case, it's a non-subtle way of trying to see half-clad women's pictures.
Carrie Fisher has said that, since the bikini was made of metal, it tended to not conform to the body and, anyone looking down at her at Jabba level got a great view. Perhaps you can have a "wardrobe malfunction" while his friends are there... And... pics or it didn't happen. (voyeur MUCH Dr. M?)
It may also be a semi-subtle way of registering doubt in the veracity of your scenario. You have to admit it sounds a trifle odd for a "slave" to be allowed Internet access to post about her predicament.
no. i don't have any pics yet! my boyfriend hasn't pushed it that far yet. by the way, what do you mean by the "it didn't happen part?" twice you've said: "pics or it didn't happen?"
are you asking whether or not the pics happened or are you saying in your own words...if i don't see pics, i don't believe it really happened? because if that's what you are saying...don't accuse me of lying!
i am telling the truth about the bikini. maybe i just don't want to share them with total strangers. there are no pics yet anyway. my boyfriend has made me do some slave duties but he hasn't taken photos yet. if he does, i still may not post them. i don't know enough about any of you to show them off. sorry.
p.s.- i don't think you are accusing me of lying, but you're wording is really weird and can be misinterpreted. try typing it like this: "pics? or were there any taken?" that's a lot easier to understand!
Hey, chill out. I'm not one of the people saying "pics or it didn't happen," I'm just suggesting what might be going through the heads of the people who are. I'm more than happy to take your post at face value, but was just saying why others might be reluctant to.
I probably would do the time out of spite and then dump him. That's girl revenge.
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Good thing is, 2 weeks goes by fairly quickly. I would suggest doing a lot of reading in your downtime.
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