I know that women can have multiple orgasms and have heard that men can too, does anyone have any advice/techniques?
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The short definition of edging is to work up to the brink of orgasm and then pull back, then repeat the process as much as you like.
More info is available via Google, of course, but here's a general introduction that reads true to one who does this:
http://www.orgasmedging.com/edging.htm
And now for my own experience.
This is hard work -- at least, it was for me in the beginning. Edging requires learning to take control of a process that seems involuntary or at the least, unstoppable.
It's possible with practice, but be prepared for the frustration of what I call "blow out" -- which is probably not a good term for the experience. (I'm thinking of the way a blown tire ends a car race.)
In the beginning, I found that my throttle had two settings: zero and ten. It's really frustrating (a big understatement) getting to nine-plus and then "blowing out," only to find your glands returning to normal without hitting the summit.
But with practice I found myself able to get to nine-five, back off to eight-something, then surge to just under ten.
Now I can do this on a regular basis, delaying, milking, and prolonging orgasm for quite a bit.
Not every time. But then, nothing happens the same way every time -- not even pouring a glass of water.
What I'm working on now is increasing the duration of the summit -- something closely related to edging, IMO.
Final note: I suppose it goes without saying, but in the spirit of leaving nothing unsaid, this is best done solo and not with a partner (unless your partner is very, very patient).
More than you wanted to know, perhaps, but -- being the font of knowledge that I am (^__~), there you go.
Ciao.
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18-year-old males have a refractory period of about 15 minutes, while those in their 70s take about 20 hours, with the average for all men being about a half-hour. Because of this, they cannot achieve "multiple orgasm" in the same way that women, whose refractory period is a few seconds or less, are able to.
To get women to have multiple orgasms, the best general technique is to "go with what works," (if you've had success with the clit, repeat that, or likewise, vaginal or the G-spot), but to alter angle, speed, or position.
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexorgasm/0,,askmen_bpkt8q9m-3,00.html
Kanner, Bernice. Are You Normal About Sex, Love, and Relationships? p. 52.
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@drscott15 - I would advise you change your topic from Love & Relationships to NSFW (Not safe for work).
And the NSFW thing for this definitely depends on where you work.
There's a whole book written about this called The Multiorgasmic Man, that a, uhh, friend, yeah a friend, umm, told me about or something. http://www.amazon.com/Multi-Orgasmic-Man-Sexual-Secrets-Should/dp/0062513362
You can also browse the Love & Relationships section of most bookstores, which can be fun to do with whomever you're dating. Just not a first date.
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