I emailed a girl, and told her I had a crush on her and missed seeing her, now what?
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I think you have made a first move, but depending on what you wrote it could be a good first move or a bad one. Either way, Aleghart is right: ladies appreciate confidence. Your next move would definitely needs to be to calling her and just simply go have some coffee. An email is cool, but it's sort of like passing a note in class. You can do better, bro.
I know it's weird and kind of scary putting yourself out there, but if you really like this girl, it will be worth it. When you do go for coffee, whatever you do tho - DO NOT USE SOME LAME LINE. For God's sake stay away from people who do use them, because those guys are TOOLS (and don't pop your collar. Jeeze man.)
But I digress. Putting yourself out there in and of itself is very attractive to women. It says "Hey, I'm not afraid to make a mistake and I'm confident and mature enough to handle taking care of you."
Just be yourself, stay true to yourself, relax and have fun! If you can do that - she's yours.
And if not, it wasn't meant to be.
Best wishes - let us know how it turns out.
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Given that the medium for "honesty" was impersonal, I would not expect a response at all. That would be the easiest on you.
At the worst, your e-mail will be forwarded to ridicule the attempt at making a connection. Depending on what was typed, this could be no big deal, or it could be embarrassing.
If you are too scared to say anything face-to-face, then what kind of chance will you have at making any kind of intimate relationship.
Best case? Call her or find a way to run into her. If necessary, have a common friend help. Play off the e-mail as a stupid way of getting in touch with her. Apologize for being lame. Offer to start over with coffee and pie, and tell her to please ignore the junior-high antics.
It sound brutal on paper, but in reality, sincere women appreciate _personal_ contact. They appreciate that you can admit when you're wrong/lame/clumsy. They like that you feel a bit awkward. And, most of all, they like pie. (Who doesn't?)
If you get an email response that is positive, I will take my aching bones elsewhere. I'll admit that I'm old and completely out of touch. But at least ask her about the pie. I'm 95% sure I'm right.
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my brain.
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