I'm sure the actual numbers are a lot higher. This info is hard to find and confirm that it is accurate. The best I can do is the following chart:

Killed
Military and para-military casualties only

edit Afghanistan and Iraq fronts
United States: 5,022 killed, 1 POW/MIA, 11 ex-POW/MIA12
United Kingdom: 332 killed, 25 ex-POW/MIA 12
Canada: 116 killed 2
Other Coalition forces: 325 killed, 1 ex-POW/MIA12
Iraqi security forces: 12,142 killed 3
Afghan security forces: 4,576 killed4
Northern Alliance: 200 killed5
Iraq contractors: 1,313 killed (795 Iraqi, 241 American, 49 British, 36 Turkish, 27 South African, 20 Fijian, 20 Nepali and 125 others, see full list here)678
Afghanistan contractors: 110 killed (26 American and 84 others, see full list here)
TOTAL: 24,016 killed

edit Arabian Peninsula
Saudi Arabia: 107 killed 9
Yemen: 24 killed10
Jordan: 1 killed11
TOTAL: 126 killed

edit Colombia
United States: 13 killed (8 soldiers, 5 contractors), 3 ex-POW/MIA (contractors)121314
Colombia: 1,561 killed1516171819
TOTAL: 1,574 killed

edit Lebanon
Israel: 121 killed20
Lebanon: 172 killed 212223
UNIFIL (since 2006): 11 killed 24 (4 Spanish, 3 Colombian, 3 French, 1 Irish, 1 British, 1 Belgian)
Lebanon government militia: 27 killed22
TOTAL: 331 killed

edit Gaza
Fatah:155 killed

edit Israel/Lebanon border area
Israel: 7 killed (post-9/11); 7 killed, 1 ex-POW/MIA (pre-9/11)

edit North Africa
United States: 23 killed25
Algeria: 300 killed26
Mauritania: 15 killed26
Chad: 3 killed27
Tunisia: 2 killed26
TOTAL: 343 killed

edit Pakistan/Waziristan
Pakistan
1,797 killed, 160 POW/MIA, 450 ex-POW/MIA 28

edit Philippines
United States: 15 killed29
Philippines: 444 killed, 1 POW/MIA (military); 20+ policemen; 21+ militiamen29
TOTAL: 500 killed, 1 POW/MIA

edit Somalia
Somali TFG: 724 killed (Somali TFG)30
Ethiopia: 3,773 killed30
Uganda: 8 killed30
Burundi: 2 killed30
Kenya: 4 killed30
TOTAL: 4,513 killed

edit Thailand
Thailand: 155 killed31

edit Casualties of targets of the campaign
Military casualties only
21,218–21,628 Killed (Afghanistan Insurgency)5
5,627 militants killed (Pakistan Insurgency)28
18,492–23,991 insurgent dead (Iraqi insurgency)32
6,370-10,800 killed (Saddam Hussein-era Iraqi Army)3
1,019 killed (Philippines insurgency)29
119 killed (Saudi militants)9
277-627 killed (Hezbollah)20
18 killed (Amal)20
12 killed (LCP)20
2 killed (PFLP-GC)20
10 killed (SSNP)22
2 killed (LDP)22
709 killed (Hamas and other militants allied to Hamas, 2008 - 2009)33
3,270-4,270 killed (Somali ICU)30
227 killed (Fatah al-Islam)21
5 killed (Jund al-Sham)21
7 killed (Lebanese bomber cells)21
450+ killed (Algerian GSPC)26
19 killed (Moroccan militants)
7 killed (Egyptian militants)
4 killed (Turkish militants)
3 killed (Kenyan militants)
6 killed (Yemeni militants)10
5 killed (Spanish militants)
1,893+ killed (FARC)19

Total: 59,518–71,516

Accodring to www.brookings.edu

Irak
The last report from June 25, 2009
http://www.brookings.edu/saban/~/media/Files/Centers/Saban/Iraq%20Index/index20090625.pdf

COALITION TROOP STRENGTH IN IRAQ
June 2009
U.S. troops in Iraq 130,000
Other coalition troops in Iraq
(excluding U.S. & Iraqi forces) 500 (all from the UK)
Total 130,500

Afghanistan
June 26, 2009
http://www.brookings.edu/foreign-policy/~/media/Files/Programs/FP/afghanistan%20index/index.pdf
Total NATO-ISAF Manpower by Regional Command (RC)
A total of 50.000 (distributed amongst 5 territories).

Troops Committed to NATO’s International Security Assistance Forces (ISAF) By Country
AS OF: June 8, 2009
Total (rounded) 61130
Table depicting their distribution by country
http://picasaweb.google.com/lh/photo/mkd9mkGI2q2GOYajYCY-vQ?authkey=Gv1sRgCKH9wKrr_N_aHw&feat=directlink