How do you know when a marriage is really over?
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Even though I cheated on him 8 years ago, we remained living together because we thought we couldn't afford to get divorced. We also have 5 dogs that we consider our "kids" that we both got together and we were both responsible for them. I have a house with a big fenced in back yard and it is very hard to find an apartment or even a house to rent that will let you have 5 dogs. We quit getting any more puppies or dogs 8 years ago because we both knew, that sooner or later, one of us was moving out. We were no longer "in love" with each other.
He moved out in November but we really haven't talked about a divorce-mainly because we had no reason to. Now he's found a new woman to love and he's told me we are definitely over and that we will be getting a divorce in the next six months and I believe him. Now it's my turn to change my life. I will always love him and he is possibly still my best friend because we both care so much for each other. But we will never be "in love" or a couple ever again. :-)
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It's the thought that makes it so. Everything that follows is just a formality.
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M$1. What would it take to fix this? Am I actually willing to do that?
2. If we do fix this, will my heart be here, or will I still be looking for a new, better relationship?
3. Am I healthy and safe in this relationship? Does this relationship contribute to me being the kind of person I want to be?
The answers to those questions can be pretty telling, if a person is honest with themselves. While a marriage is over if the other party isn't willing to work on it, you can't control them. You can only control yourself, so you need to know what you really want and are willing to do.
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