How do you know if youre in love? Are there any age limits to love? Are there ANY limits to love?
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To that I'd say there are age limits to love. Some practical, some legal.
But the other parts to the question are:
1. How do I know if I'm in love.
2. Are there limits to love.
I'm in love when I don't stop to think about whether or not I should or shouldn't do something for my person. I just do it. Whether it's leaving the toilet seat in the opposite position or taking care of them when they are incapacitated.
Love is something I do, not feel.
Feeling in love is an entirely different animal. One day I might feel like I'm in love but feelings change, they fluctuate, the grow, diminish, transform. Every day I can feel something different. So if I base my love for someone on feelings, not choice, what happens when my feelings change? I might feel "out of love". Feelings are fickle like that.
So are there limits to love? Only if I base my decision to love someone on how I feel. If I choose to love them, nothing outside of my own free will can change that. To that extent my love is limitless.
My feelings are my choice. I can choose to love my wife, my car, my hobby, my cat, a flower, rock, cloud or another person or persons. No one can "make" me feel good, or bad, or in love or out of love. My feelings are mine and mine alone. Who I choose to share them with is also my choice. Hopefully a choice shared by the person I choose. But as anyone who has been in a one sided relationship before can attest, it's not necessary for someone to love me back for me to feel in love with them.
You're in love with whom you choose, you feel love when you choose. You are not the slave to some unknown factor. Make good choices. Enjoy what you choose. Love what you do, do what you love and find someone to share your life with that also chooses you over all others. Life has been much better that way for us. :)
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I don't think there is an age limit for love. May be there are different categories of love.
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Now.. "in love" is different from "love". I define "in love" as that Disneyland-state in which everything feels wonderful and your heart flutters (rainbows and unicorns). Intimate love, for me, is the sharing of your inner self (the good and the bad). You know when you are "loving" someone when you accept their inner self (the good and the bad) and they accept the same from you.
Side note: In the "in love" state, you are not sharing the real you. You want to show your "best" self so that the person sticks around... You don't burp, fart, swear or anything else too offensive. When you start being your "real" self is when the REAL love starts...
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