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2 years, 9 months ago

How do you know if a guy is into you?

I prefer an answer based on personal experience and not just from a book, e-book, relationship guide or whatever...
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silverhammer | 2 years, 9 months ago
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If he was into you you wouldn't have to ask.

When I'm into a girl she knows it.

I listen to her talk, I look into her eyes, I pay attention to the things she's into, I try to include her in everything I do, I want to be involved in things she does, I know her friends, I have eyes only for her, I tell her everything, I want to hear everything about her.

Trust me, there's no question.

If you have to ask, the relationship needs more time to grow or your hopes are stronger than the interest.

If your guy is too shy to show it then give him time to grow out of his shyness by encouraging him with smiles, questions and availability. But never substitute sex for actual verbal communication. Don't let your fantasies fill the gaps. There is no substitute for actual communication.

I'd also suggest not taking it personally if the guy isn't into you after all. Your ability to love someone doesn't make them the best person for you to love. His inability to appreciate how wonderful you are (or can be) doesn't make you any less worthy of a person to be with.

Find someone who doesn't have trouble showing his interest and you'll be a happier person for your efforts. Who wants to spend the rest of their life wondering? I like KNOWING! :)

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lexnucleus | 2 years, 9 months ago
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You would know, even if he won't say a word, you would feel it.
It's hard to last a day or a moment without thinking of a girl that a guy likes or loves...

Some may seem like they are interested, but they just want to score, you would know the difference between someone who is just trying too hard, and someone who simply just can't help it....

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jeansquared | 2 years, 9 months ago Report

sometimes the guy is so confusing that's why I prefer an answer from a guy. At least you guys can tell if you really like the woman or not or if the guys really loves the woman or not.

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ellen | 2 years, 9 months ago
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watch the movie..."he's really not that into you"

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awesome222 | 2 years, 9 months ago
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I always have found this funny. I am of the female kind and i have to say, you know the answer, you just probably don't want to know it. You can go around asking all your friends who will sugarcoat it and make it easier for you to fool yourself. I think it's an innate thing to know if someone likes you or not, and well with all these games people play and stuff, it can be confusing. If you suspect someone "likes" you but are playing the hard to get game, stay away from this guy. If he can't come upfront or acts like your whatever (if you already ruled out it's not based on being shy) he is playing you and you don't want to get in that mess. Trust your instincts, they are usually always right with these things. I can't tell you how many times i've warned friends and family about these guys and even though they initial feel iffy about the guy (their intuition) they easily fall for all the tricks in the book and its pretty bad.

If he's the right guy, he won't be hiding from you or make you question if he likes you or not. If he can't be upfront about it, then he probably doesn't like you and he's just taking you out for a ride. See what vibe he gives off and look at the way he looks at you. That is very telling.

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