How do respond when a family member creates drama just because thinks she gets left out of stuff?
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You know what she wants... she wants to be included. Can you help her get what she wants in a different way? Without the drama?
Does she recognize that she is doing the exact opposite of what she desires by her bad behavior? Creating drama can push people AWAY from you so they DON'T want to include you anymore (because they want to avoid the drama).
Have you examined how you DO exclude this family member? What part of the problem do YOU own?
These are great things to communicate with this family member... perhaps on a one-on-one, comfortable, safe manner.
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Just ignore him/her, because I am sure you have talk to him/her. Some people just like drama.
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M$1. publicly, try to difuse it, and say "we will talk about it later" and calm down everyone involved
2. privately, take the person aside and have a chat about why she thinks "the squeeky wheel gets the oil." It doesn't always work to get attention that way. Truth seekers soon label people like that "wolf callers" and their credibility is ruined.
Perhaps this person you are writing about just needs to see the consequences of her behavior. She needs positive idea on how to get attention, not negative.
Believe me, I've seen this in 1 year olds and 90 year olds, so it is not an "age issue!"
good luck!
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Respond to her the way you would want your family to respond to you if you felt the same way. Remember, anyone can be right, but it is often more important to be kind.
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M$Take here to a place she likes and when the moment is right tell her
what i just said here it will work I have 2 brothers and we have lived a life like
you have with her . This is how we do it and let me tell you my family is
all i have i love them so much know it is going to get better and she will
understand .
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awesome Don. good advice. cheers! have a great day!
wow my video is not that good lol . I really understand how you feel .sorry about my video . It look like my lips are moveing fast lol
I hope it all works out for you and her. She might forget easy i do it sometimes
She might fell bad for forgetting. So she get a splintered tongue toward the family .
Thanks. I love this family member and we are close but it makes me mad when she's told about family functions and then blames others when she forgets about them.
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