How do I tell someone I'm not interested in them?
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M$Another time I asked someone out and said they preferred to keep our relationship as just friends. This was less harsh, but just as clear. Again, it hurt my feelings a little bit in the moment, but I got over it quickly, and then I was free to move on to be interested in someone else!
If you lie, especially if you give some excuse, it lets them hold out hope that your current situation will change and then they can try again. If you tell the truth, it lets them move past you and find someone else more right for them.
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M$Another option would be to tell them that you are in love with someone else or that you are already dating someone.......you may not be dating but if you Daydream or Fantasize about Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, etc. or a female celebrity like Selma Hayek or Heidi Klum....use these fake relationships as an excuse to turn someone down that you don't want to date. The person won't know that it's all in your head!
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M$With a stranger I would agree with giggle. Be polite, seem flattered but be honest. A simple no and a smile. A clever exit if persisted.
With a friend or someone you know it's more complicated. You aren't never going to see this person again, and you don't know how deep their feelings are. In this case again honesty is the best policy tell them straight out why you're not interested. This says "no" without leaving them wondering.. "why not?" .. which in cases of rejection tends to go to negative thoughts. Make clear why you appreciate their friendship and why you want to keep it just at friends. As a tip, avoid doing this is a large group. Some teasing may ensue depending on your choice of company.
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Good idea, going around the question could work. :D