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What are your best flirting tips?

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buckets | 2 years, 4 months ago
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Nice question! The first thing I recommend is learning how to play an instrument. If you're a guy, I've noticed that girls like that sort of thing. But, if you're not in those shoes, I've always thought that humor is the best way to go. I grew up in a pretty "smarta**" family, and we were always throwing jokes back and forth. That really helped with my confidence around people, and always made me feel capable in a conversation with the opposite sex. I've learned a few lessons from "girl movies", as well. Random flower deliveries, sitting down to listen to a conversation - these are highly underrated 'flirting' tips.

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fedor30maslov | 1 year, 9 months ago Report

Изысканный дизайн интерьера квартир, офисов

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cherise | 2 years, 4 months ago
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Be yourself.

Relax.

Keep it light.

Don't try to rush it; enjoy and appreciate and relish every step of the way.

Resist making it physical for as long as you can so that you actually get to know the person before you feel committed to a relationship with the person.

Have fun!

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garyallen | 1 year, 5 months ago Report

About as good as the answer I would have posted (which was actually my answer to another question):

There are three kinds of flirting, I think. One is the kind that's really innocent, perhaps just smiling, raising eyebrows, . The second ups the ante to actually talking to each other-even if for a moment, maybe even joking and complimenting on looks--tastefully. it is almost every time the two people come in contact with each other--perhaps your morning routine puts you at the same coffee shop as each other at the same time every day. A smile leads to a hello and an introduction to each other, rolling right into the third kind: you're trying to keep each other's attention. The third It is very much a mutual thing

In the first case, it could just be a guy's personality to always compliment women (i.e. "A beautiful woman can never be told too many times that she is so."--G. Allen) In the second case, it could be as little as saying hello to the other person by name. In the third case it's a full-court-press to see who can out-flirt who. None are necessarily a romantic thing, all can be just for ...the best word I can use is "sport"...but dollars to donuts that #2 and #3 will be romantic gestures, with #2 being the beginning of a relationship and #3 being right before one finally asks the other out.

I wound up with a college girlfriend once because I used to smile and say, "Hi, Susan, how are you?" out of courtesy every time I walked into her office. She was a newspaper ad rep, I was a freelance ad designer, and I hand-delivered my ads every week. I was working for a big account--my account rep was her boss, the director of advertising. But I had to walk through a large room that had the girl's desk--as well as the desk of every other ad rep-- in it to get to her boss. So, since I saw the girl every week, I finally asked her name.

Much to my surprise she called me one day and asked me out. And I'm not gorgeous.

And I was a freshman, she was a senior. It turned out that she loved the attention.

I later learned that nobody had ever flirted with her so much.

And I didn't even realize that I was doing it. It's my personality.

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garyallen | 1 year, 5 months ago Report

About as good as the answer I would have posted (which was actually my answer to another question):

There are three kinds of flirting, I think. One is the kind that's really innocent, perhaps just smiling, raising eyebrows, . The second ups the ante to actually talking to each other-even if for a moment, maybe even joking and complimenting on looks--tastefully. it is almost every time the two people come in contact with each other--perhaps your morning routine puts you at the same coffee shop as each other at the same time every day. A smile leads to a hello and an introduction to each other, rolling right into the third kind: you're trying to keep each other's attention. The third It is very much a mutual thing

In the first case, it could just be a guy's personality to always compliment women (i.e. "A beautiful woman can never be told too many times that she is so."--G. Allen) In the second case, it could be as little as saying hello to the other person by name. In the third case it's a full-court-press to see who can out-flirt who. None are necessarily a romantic thing, all can be just for ...the best word I can use is "sport"...but dollars to donuts that #2 and #3 will be romantic gestures, with #2 being the beginning of a relationship and #3 being right before one finally asks the other out.

I wound up with a college girlfriend once because I used to smile and say, "Hi, Susan, how are you?" out of courtesy every time I walked into her office. She was a newspaper ad rep, I was a freelance ad designer, and I hand-delivered my ads every week. I was working for a big account--my account rep was her boss, the director of advertising. But I had to walk through a large room that had the girl's desk--as well as the desk of every other ad rep-- in it to get to her boss. So, since I saw the girl every week, I finally asked her name.

Much to my surprise she called me one day and asked me out. And I'm not gorgeous.

And I was a freshman, she was a senior. It turned out that she loved the attention.

I later learned that nobody had ever flirted with her so much.

And I didn't even realize that I was doing it. It's my personality.

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aafrikan | 2 years, 4 months ago Report

You are right on target... at 50 years old, I know for a fact waiting works. And if you go
t physical before what you deem as sufficient amount of time. Don't feel compel to continue to engage the person physically. Tell them you think that it would be good to just take it easy and get to know each other a little longer.

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sunshine09 | 2 years, 4 months ago
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I would just be youself and do not be shy about letting her know you have feelings about the relationship growing. Find out what interset her and maybe plan some dates around that, that would let her know also that you would like to take the relationship further. Good Luck and have fun !!

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bklynj | 2 years, 4 months ago
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For a guy, move into her territory and touch her arm or back-if she doesn't back away-go for it.
For a girl just go for it-he wants you.

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cc123 | 2 years, 4 months ago
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Flash your boobs ladies the boys love that! You will get a 75% chance you will get some!!

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subgman | 2 years, 4 months ago
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Show genuine interest in the other person and do not volunteer information about yourself until the other person asks. If the other person is not taking any interest in you by asking questions, move on.

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amybrowne2 | 2 years, 4 months ago
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smile a lot, be yourself, and watch body language as you plan your next move.

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