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M$1 June 04, 2009 04:57 PM

If nobody knows the true origin of the phrase, why do people continue to say "bless you" after you sneeze?

There are many theories as to why people sneeze. Wikipedia lists seven such theories. Since it's clear that nobody knows where the phrase came from, why do we continue to say this phrase to people each time they sneeze? I'm not religious, and it drives me nuts when people bless me after I sneeze... especially if I sneeze 3 times in a row, which is usually my style.

Sneezing is the body's way to expel air forcibly from the mouth and nose in an explosive, spasmodic involuntary action resulting chiefly from irritation of the nasal mucous membrane. Do we really need to be courteous to others when someone does this? What's the point? To be "nice"?
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June 04, 2009 06:39 PM
Habit. We're simple creatures, and we like habit.

I walked away from the Christian world when I was 18, and ever since then it has occurred to me how repugnant it is that I still say "Bless You", or even "G' Bless You" - even to my toddler daughter, who has now begun saying it herself!

But...it's the thing to say. It the awkward moment after another person's sneeze, we need something to say.

"Gesundheit" seems too formal
"Are you alright?" seems melodramatic.
"My goodness" seems reactionary
"Wow" seems a little rude sometimes
"Good one!" seems a little childish
...and other phrases I've tried to help catch on just haven't caught.

So why say anything at all? Besides habit, it's polite to give the Sneezer a moment to recompose themselves (wipe their nose if necessary), and say a quick, "Excuse me." A quick polite nice wish fills that awkward moment nicely.

Since "Bless You" doesn't fit me, and it doesn't fit you, shall we come up with some new silence-fillers to quip after a sneeze?

How about:
"Healthy wishes"
"Achoo to you too"
"Peace"
or "Calm tidings"??

Oh, and I'm with you - I hate the people who have to say something after every single sneeze. Hold your applause 'til the end people!
(Ooh, maybe instead of saying something we should just applaud - now there's a winning idea!)
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June 04, 2009 06:44 PM
If I'm with someone and they sneeze, I generally just carry on and do not feel awkward at all--it's a sneeze for cryin' out loud. Same goes if someone farts, burps, or coughs--these are all bodily happenings that occur whether we want them to or not, for the most part. Now belching, that's different; I'll usually bestow a score from 1 to 10 when someone belches. ;)

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June 04, 2009 06:49 PM
The "awkward moment" thing is interesting, too. I wonder why we find it awkward to recompose ourselves and carry on with whatever we were doing before the sneeze. When did the sneezing process become such an embarrassing moment for us?

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June 04, 2009 07:38 PM
I would say it's awkward because it's common enough that all of a sudden there's snot all over your face - or hand, or whatever. Sneezes aren't always dry and clean! Even if they are clean, sometimes people feel the need to blow them out right afterward. Or clean house. Eww.

Or, maybe that awkwardness is repulsion that someone just aerosolized every germ in their body all over you!

Sometimes sneezes can be startling to both the Sneezer and the Sneezee, causing one to lose one's train of thought, hence the pause in conversation and awkward silence.

So I might not always call that pause embarrassing, but I think it's more just a gut reaction to a scenario that could play out in a number of ways. We wait to gauge the Sneezer's reaction, offer a polite quip to fill the void, and move on.

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June 04, 2009 05:57 PM
The phrase "bless you" comes from the ancient belief that when you were sneezing demons were coming out of your body and "bless you" was the response people used to protect your soul. It is still used today because the phrase, sometimes without the reason why, has been passed down from generation to generation.

The website I've sourced also offers alternative explanations as to why people still say "bless you."
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June 04, 2009 06:46 PM
This is great, but my question details stated that I already know the different origins of the phrase. I'm after the "why do we still say it?" part, even though we know that spirits and demons arent flying out of our bodies and our hearts do in fact continue through a sneeze.

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June 04, 2009 06:00 PM
I do not know what todays science says, but "God bless you" comes from the ancient belief that by sneezing you remove illness from your body. So there is something potentially wrong and you are on the best way to avoid it, especially with Gods blessing.

The Germans say "Gesundheit", meaning Health. Most of European languages have one of these two phrases, but both are based on the mentioned belief.

In my opinion this is a way of expressing affection for a fellow human. This how I feel when I am in ether position.

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June 04, 2009 07:09 PM
If we don't say "bless you" after somebody sneezes, we are worried that, the other person might think "we are rude(not nice)".
Modern meaning could be:
"bless you" = "Thanks for covering your nose, when you sneezed. thanks for not spreading the germs!"

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June 04, 2009 07:29 PM
At this point, it's just a social courtesy. Of course, we all know that no one really needs to be 'blessed' after a sneeze. We know they are not dying, possessed by evil spirits, or any other of the possible theories of origin.

However, the saying of "God bless you" which evolved to "bless you", for whatever reason, stuck as a form of common courtesy after a sneeze for centuries. Now, no one says it out of concern for the well-being of the sneezer at all, but instead out of their own concern of being viewed as impolite or simply out of habit.

I rarely say it myself because I think it's pointless, and I don't like the religious connotation. However, I do find myself saying it occasionally out of habit or in professional scenarios to be polite.

As a person who sneezes a lot, I find all of the sneeze blessings I receive somewhat annoying. How am I supposed to reply to those? I generally just say "thanks," but that seems so casual for a blessing response.

All of this sneeze talk reminds me of the episode of Seinfeld where Jerry proposes that he should replace "God bless you" after sneezes with a phrase that people will really appreciate: "You are so good looking!". I'm going to say this to anyone who sneezes around me today. It'll make them feel better than any blessing could!

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June 04, 2009 08:50 PM
Although there are various theories about the origin, I think the reason so many people say it now is just "habit". Most people are not consciously blessing you--they are just responding in the way their mothers taught them...

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June 04, 2009 09:42 PM
I think that's a very valid point: the way their mothers taught them. That's exactly where I learned it from (grandma too) and one day I stopped and asked myself why I was saying it, because it just didn't make sense to me. I looked it up, and my jaw hit the floor.

Makes me wonder what else we do that we have no idea where it originated from. For example, adikcija just made me realize that "Gazoontite" is actually a real german word, spelled "Gesundheit" meaning "health." Holy cow, are you serious? I had no idea--I just accepted it as fact because when I was a kid, that's what Bugs Bunny said to someone who sneezed. Right? Who's with me?! Crazy stuff the things we just accept without asking what it means. ;)

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June 04, 2009 10:19 PM
I think it's sweet that up until recently you didn't know Gesundheit wasn't spelled Gazoontite. . Of course, maybe the only reason I knew is that my dad used to say it with a very German accent, and call me Fraulein at the same time (just to be goofy).

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June 04, 2009 10:28 PM
I was always under the impression that when people say "god bless you", and ancient believe was your body was expelling the "devil" out of your system, thus the saying "god bless you"

Of course we know its to expel and irritant of nasal mucosa receptors.
- Due to - rapid deep inhalation, pharyngeal constriction, and an air velocity near 115Km/hr. I have a test on this topic tomorrow hahah

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June 05, 2009 01:19 AM
People say "bless you" because it's lingered in the culture as the appropriate thing to say. While you might find it strange and annoying, there are other people who'd find it impolite if it wasn't said! So even knowing that there isn't much reason to say it, it's perhaps best to go along with the tradition and not give offense needlessly. At least until you know what the person expects.

Pretty much all of our conversations are governed by these kind of cultural rules. Whether it's saying "Please" and "Thank you", or "Have a nice day", or "Wassup?" People from other cultures or subcultures who aren't raised to say those things find them equally strange, and possibly ridiculous or annoying!

It's even possible to cause people great offence by thanking them! :)

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June 07, 2009 12:45 PM
Old habits die hard!
I have grown up using the Gazoontite (Gesundheit) method of response. I always loved the sound of that word and it takes away the stuffy orthodox sound of "bless you".
Sneezes were funny in my house growing up. My sneezes have always sounded like a mouse being expelled from a cannon, and people would always laugh at me.
Sometimes my brother would use the "bless you" approach, but mock it with a deep voice and adding ..."my child" afterward.
My sister would sometimes extend her sneezes with nonsensical words like, Achooo- ballo-mallo.
Maybe if we look at sneezing as performance art, it won't matter what a person says to you. And like @gno stated, we could clap at the end!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNYfZd8iV2k

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June 07, 2009 02:46 PM
It's polite - customary. Manners are a nice thing to have around. Why all the fuss. ;-)

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