Do we decide who we fall in love with, or is it a force that is beyond our control?
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Sometimes the feeling of "love" persists even after we have made a conscious decision to disengage because the person is an alcoholic, drug addict, or no longer interested in us. In the event, it does feel "beyond" our control.
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M$Love is a choice and an action, not an emotion. Falling in love means choosing to care about someone, to allow their happiness and safety to matter to us. Loving someone means taking care of them, listening to them, being there for them, entertaining them, and encouraging them to meet their potential.
Of course, once we choose to make someone matter so much to us, of course we get emotionally involved, as well. Most people are not aware that they are making this choice, but I believe that it is a choice.
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