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What is your biggest turnoff while on a date?

What is your biggest turnoff while on a date?
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nativenerd nativenerd
 
 April 07, 2009 06:47 PM
Not having her own opinion or thoughts on anything...

I'll say it right up front, I like a mental challenge. And I like to go wherever the conversation flies...but I don't care how gorgeous she is...if all she can say is, "Oh mah Gawd! I was in the store and saw the cutest little..." bleh...

although you didn't ask it...one of the bigger turn-ONs is actually when she will spar back and forth with me on a subject. I really don't care what about...science, philosophy, history, sociology, or just something stupid. If she will challenge/overturn my thoughts/opinions with intelligent ideas of her own...Ooooo....


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thekid thekid
 
April 07, 2009 04:15 PM
I think the biggest thing for me, at least on a first date, is answering your cell phone. Some times it's an important call, but recently I had a girl answer her phone while we were having dinner and talk to her friend about nothing for around 10 minutes. I can't tell you how much of a turnoff it was to be sitting there fiddling with the straw in my drink while she was yacking to her friend. I was really into her until that happened and because of it I never called her back for a second date.

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cynthiag cynthiag
 
April 12, 2009 12:21 AM
Cell phone usage would be a huge turnoff. A date is a way for two people to get to know one another. If someone carries on a random conversation while on a date...I would assume they are not that interested in getting to know me. Nice answer!

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foruivan foruivan
 
April 07, 2009 04:15 PM
Late on the first date.

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vandal913 vandal913
 
April 07, 2009 05:47 PM
When the girl constantly talks about herself, and doesn't ask a single question about you or your life/interests.

It's a bad sign when you come home from a date and realize that the person you just went out with doesn't know a single thing about you, and you know ENTIRELY too much about them.

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demanda demanda
 
April 07, 2009 06:15 PM
Oh, it's difficult for me to pick my *biggest* dating turnoff. There are so many! One of my major picks would definitely be when a guy is rude to waitstaff. Regardless of how gentlemanly a man acts towards me, if he is rude to the waiter, he loses my respect. It really shows his true colors.

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rhonmark rhonmark
 
April 07, 2009 11:09 PM
Making those annoying schmacking sounds while chewing. That's a major turn-off for me.

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numma2 numma2
 
April 08, 2009 09:55 PM
talking about an ex.....

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