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#What is the best or worst date you have ever been on?

If it was the worst date, was there a second one?
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August 14, 2009 03:31 PM
I must say my worst date has to be this one time my first boyfriend and I went out. It was one of our first dates, and since he was my first boyfriend, that means it was one of my first dates ever, which was back in the early 1990's. His family didn't have much money, but I had no problem with that. I have never been a snob. He borrowed his dad's car and we went out to see a movie. His dad's car was a 1970ish Dodge Dart. I had never been in a car that old before and it was kind of interesting seeing the different style of interior and all, however, that poor car mechanically was on it's last legs. It was idling at 45 mph, meaning that as my boyfriend was driving through town in a 35 mph zone, he used no gas, just brakes, to keep the car from going faster than the speed limit. Yes, that is very dangerous. After the movie, we are driving back through town and he decides to stop in at an auto parts place saying "I think it needs oil." So we stop and buy motor oil. He proceeds to take the dipstick out and says, "Hang on, I'm going to go get a funnel." At that point, I knew what he had in his mind. He was going to try to pour the oil down the dipstick hole, which of course is not right and probably not even possible. Realizing this was a mistake, but not knowing much about cars myself, I went into the glove box and started searching for information on where to pour the motor oil in. I found it quickly, surprisingly, just as he was headed out with the funnel. I quickly stopped him and said, very nicely, "Um, I think maybe the oil might go here" and I pointed to the appropriate spot. He said I was wrong and to go sit back in the car. I once again said something about it, being more assertive this time. He paused and went inside to ask the store clerk. The store clerk walked outside and told him I was right, that the oil doesn't get filled through the dipstick hole. He looked at me with a weird look on his face as if to say "I can't believe you were right" and "I think somebody just chopped off my bits and pieces" all at the same time.

Far be it from me to want to figuratively castrate a guy, but when it comes to my safety, you can bet I'm going to toss the guy's feelings to the wind and do what will best get me home safely.


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August 14, 2009 01:02 AM
Some people do not like Hispanic food. Some people do not like Indian food. I do not like Russian food.So my worst date was when this man took me to a Russian restaurant. He did not ask me if I like Russian food. I did not want to make him feel bad, so I tried the food. I had to go to the bathroom and throw up.No, we did not have a second date.

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August 14, 2009 01:34 AM
The worst date was wen i took a girl out and she looked so perfect,beautiful and i noticed she walked kind of funny and we got to her house she asked me in, i went in and it turns out she is a transvestite a shemale if u will , i left n never talked to her again

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August 14, 2009 02:23 AM
Well since I've only ever had 2 dates in my life, easy to answer this. No bad ones, both were good. Went to lunch once and played pool another time.

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August 14, 2009 03:42 AM
My first. I was so nervous and shy. It was the preacher's daughter. I really wasn't much of talker and we just kind of bumbled along, not really connecting.

On the way home, I ran the car off in a ditch because I was such a wreck. Luckily, there was no damage to the car. Only my pride.

And it wasn't even my car, or my dad's, it was my friend's father's car. How embarrassing.

I was 14. I got my first driver's license that year.

Oh, there was no second date. It was so bad, I virtually erased it from my mind.
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August 14, 2009 07:01 AM
The worst date I ever had was with my ex-girlfriend last Valentine's day. I planned a simple movie and dinner, since she didn't give me any suggestions.

Throughout the whole night, she never gave eye contact; and she hardly spoke to me. In fact, I had to chase her almost 10 times as she walks away and sms me "You don't care about me".

Apparently she said I was "too simply". We've been together for almost 5 months then. Talk about "High Maintenance".

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August 15, 2009 03:12 PM
The worse date I have ever been on was with my ex. His name was Devon and he was a senior in high school and I was a Junior or Sophomore. We met online and decided to meet up one day for a date at the movies at around 9am. I was sitting downstairs nervous wondering what he looks like and if he was going to like me. I finally get a call saying that he had just arrived, so I met him upstairs and we hugged each other and started talking. So far things are good. The theater opens at 10am and it was a few minutes until then, so we started standing in line. He was about to get his money out to pay for the two of us when I saw a picture of another girl in his wallet. I didn't ask who it was or anything, but he just ended up pulling out the picture and said that the girl is his ex :O I was thinking to myself "wtf?????" I didn't really care all that much about it because it was the first date/"boyfriend" I had ever had. Another horrible thing was that on our other dates, he never really held my hand in public.

I have another one. Not too sure if you would really call it a date though, but I'll tell ya anyways :)

i started talking to this guy on myspace and I thought that he was so hot lol...I'm pretty sure that a lot of girls think so as well. He was in the army and he was in Iraq. His time there was almost up and he was coming back home to Hawaii, where I live. He thought that we should hook up online and then meet up when he gets back. I thought "ok!" So for the next few weeks we would message each other back and forth and he would call me sometimes when he would get the chance. But, any who, I get this call at like 4am, I answer it and it's him! He told me that he was back and he wanted to see me. He told me to get a cab, take it to the base and he'll meet me there to pay for my ride. Being the dumb/st**** person that I was, I did it. Now I was worried but he kept on insisting so I called the cab, took about an hour to get to the base and we were at the gate, and I didn't have my ID in my wallet :O WTF!!! horrible. I tried calling him back numerous times but I had no signal. This lasted til like 6 or 7 in the morning. The officer at the gate even lend me his phone to call him and the taxi driver was pissed off. I couldn't go anywhere because I had no money on me and even if I did, I wouldn't have enough money to pay the whole bill. When I got a hold of him he said he couldn't come out because he drank too much. I was so mad. I lost signal and called back, his friends answered said they didn't know where he was. So, I gave up. I tried calling my friends for help telling them I'd pay them back and finally one of my friends helped me out. Said to go to their place and they'd pay for me. I was so thankful that she had my back and felt so sorry for taking up so much of the taxi drivers time. I started crying in the car and the driver even felt bad cuz he said so. I had to take the bus home from my friends place which took like 2-3 hours. Was the worse day of my life. A somewhat "date" that never happened.

Sorry so long.

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