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How to flirt with a guy on the phone?

ok me and this guy have been friends for months and we both liked(present tense;like) each other. he acts really wierd like one day we'll be on his bed making out then the next day he wont talk to me but hes not mad or anything. and i now it sounds like 6th grade drama but were both in highschool so i dont know whats up. so heres the question: he calls me the other night after being on vacation for like the whole summer, and hes like hay jamie....and im like omgh hey i havent seen you in forever...and hes like lets flirt...and im like what...and hes like i feel excited...and im like ooookkkaaay....and he like ok you go first...and im like know you go first...(im sitting there like...idk what you call flirting but i always thought flirting was like 2 little middle schoolers in the cafeteria at school sharing cake...i didnt say that but i thought it) then hes like ok...what would you do if i was at your house right now and nobody was home except me and you....and im like wtf...idk....and hes like come on jamie...you have an answer and im like no i dont...and hes like w/e...then he said hed call me back in a half hour and he never did and its been like 3 days now and hes pissing me off...he always pulls stuff like this but i still love him and im so tired of it....so i was just wondering what anybodys opinions are...so yeah... thats it...
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beast1oh1 beast1oh1
 
 August 22, 2009 03:40 AM
To be honest it seems like to me he is only interested in sex and doesn't really have that much respect for you. Flirting involves giving someone compliments about the way they look. But it sounds like to me he was wanting phone sex. And sex is what he only wants. He ignores you most of the time and yet he still wants to make out. He promises to call you back but yet he forgets and doesn't call back. Which means your rarely on his mind. What you need to do is confront him and tell him that if he wants to be able to make out and have phone sex with you, he has to respect you and give you the attention you deserve when you two are not making out.
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cutiebabi9... cutiebabi9...
 
August 22, 2009 03:50 AM
wow...thanks. That really helped a lot and it made a lot of sense. your the first person who actually helped me...all my friends are just like sooo...whats the problem

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buddawiggi buddawiggi
 
August 22, 2009 03:53 AM
I also agree with @beast101 's advice. Seems exactly right to me.

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krysstel krysstel
 
August 22, 2009 04:04 AM
ew!
If this is a real question from a real person, then I'd have to advise to "dump this guy". He's a loser. find someone to be with in person, who can be your friend, have fun with and a REAL life. you deserve better than this kind of treatment.

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silverhamm... silverhamm...
 
August 22, 2009 08:26 PM
'nuff sed?

If you have to ask if a guy is right for you it's typically because you're arguing with yourself because you already know the answer. If I were you I wouldn't even waste time discussing it with him. Just move on and never go back but be prepared for drama and him telling stories behind your back.

Your self worth should never be based on whether or not you're dating or how many guys say they like you. You're just at that age where if you're not dating people look down at you.

Some people claim that High School was the best years of their life. I wouldn't live those years over again if you paid me! I wish you all the best. Don't this guy (or any other) hold you back.

Oh, and don't EVER share pics/sexts with your phone or camera or you risk ending up on "my exgirlfriend" websites (link not shown on purpose) and it's illegal if you're underage anyway. Just say no!

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