First, time is the most important part of this. You don't say how long you've had the kitten, but I suspect you do what a lot of people do and throw the two in together. The right way to introduce a kitten is to start with the kitten in a room with a litter box, food and water bowl, bed and a scratching post. Allow the cats to get used to the idea that there's someone new around. Then crack open the door and let your adult cat, (who has the run of the house), "meet with" the new addition.

If you haven't done that, it may be too late to do this, so the next step is to be sure that there are at least two of everything so the kitten doesn't hog everything, such as food bowls, water bowls, litter boxes, etc. They need to be in different rooms because if one cat is interested in ambushing the other, you can give the other cat a breather.

Your cats MUST be neutered. Even a kitten as young as 6 weeks can be neutered by a competent veterinarian. This will go a long way in keeping the fights down.

Next, you need to spend more time with your adult cat. Yes, the kitten needs attention, but you need to spend more time with your adult cat because he's feeling put out.

There are some calming pheromones called Feliway I highly recommend. Get the plug-in variety to help calm your kitty's nerves and spray it around areas to help calm your cats.

Lastly, try play training your cats. Use fishing pole toys or teaser toys on a stick and play with the adult cat alone or, using two, play with both cats.

I recommend my two books, The Cat Owner's Problem Solver and Bring Me Home, Cats Make Great Pets for more ideas, but that's it in a nutshell.
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www.feliway.com
The Cat Owner's Problem Solver by Margaret H. Bonham
Bring Me Home, Cats Make Great Pets by Margaret H. Bonham

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