so theres this guy ive been friends with since i started college about 3 months ago, and were pretty good friends, but i met his friends through him and became a lot closer with them over time. but me and him are still good friends, but were just not like the hang out every single weekend best friends or anything. but you see, the problem is, about 2 months ago i started to notice that i was having feelings for him when we were watching a movie and he had his arm around me and i was laying on his arm. but after that day i really noticed that there wasnt much meaning behind when he does things like that, i think he just does it all the time to his female friends. and its just really hard cause after that day i really tried to not have feelings for him, because i know when he gets drunk he goes around and sleeps with girls and stuff and im definitly not that type of girl. but dont get me wrong, hes still such a great guy, hes just also a bit of your typical college guy. and it hurts me, because i really started to get over him, and then about a month ago i learned theres this girl back and home, and she came up to her school, and theyre not together, but he likes her and she likes him and they talk all the time on the computer and stuff. and then this weekend, i hadnt heard much about her lately, but then i figured out the next day he texted her 'i miss you' when he was blacked out and it was right when i was near him. but we were both drunk that night and i fell asleep in his bed and we like slept on top of eachother the whole night and it was so cute but i dont think he even remembers most of it, if any. and its like killing me that my feelings wont go away, but when im around him i cant help it! i dont want to feel like crap because he doesnt like me like this, but i cant stop and its been 2 months, and i know theres another girl, and i dont know whats not stopping me! something is just not letting me stop. i dont know what to do! please helpppp meeeeee!!=(